Celebrating Women’s Day with my family of feminists

So another Women’s Day rolls by. This year, this month, I think it fitting to celebrate the feminists in my life who are special to me, and who inspire me in different ways, at different moments of the year. The past month has been particularly significant for me in terms of the writing of two women in my family, and this post celebrates the sis-in-law, who is also friend, feminista and fun. Some time down the line I’ll write about the mother, who is a little difficult to describe in words, which is why I need more time to mull over her. chuckle.

Anindita won the Toto Funds The Arts (TFA) award for creative writing last month in Bangalore. Both awards in this section went to Bongs in Bengaluru, which is interesting enough in itself, but even more so, as Ani - and the rest of us - saw it, was that the award was presented by Amitav Ghosh. Now if that isn’t a matter for joint celebration and collective swooning, I don’t know what is. :-)

Anindita’s poetry is archived at her poetry blog, but here’s a taste of her crisp craftsmanship. I chose this one because it speaks of a woman with a history and a future different from ours, of a woman who “bears the hollows in deep places”. Women’s Day is about celebration, but it is also about consciousness, that sharp poet’s eye for life - for a woman’s living - that can otherwise pass us by in a mundane flurry. Thank you for that watchfulness, and your own, bright, particular voice, Ani.

<meta content="OpenOffice.org 2.3 (Linux)" name="GENERATOR" /><br /> <style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style> <blockquote> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2"><strong>Parvati</strong><br /> <em>the migrant’s wife</em></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">when the wind comes down from the hills<br /> and palm trees fling their leaves about<br /> like Sufi saints stepped off the edge, </font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">she lies on a mat on the floor,<br /> arms out,</font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">and listens to coconuts falling on the roof<br /> like tough-shelled meteors.</font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">in her, quiet,<br /> is the cry of marauding elephants<br /> grey. heavy. it flattens her. </font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">Parvati, woman of the foothills,<br /> woman of hard hands and bright teeth,<br /> woman who endlessly waits. </font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">woman whose waiting is a wound<br /> that will not let skin<br /> close over it<br /> </font></font><br /> <font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">a wound full of tree, grass, rain<br /> and the smell of mud<br /> </font></font><br /> <font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="2">woman who bears the hollows in deep places<br /> but feels herself break<br /> with the slow burn, the stench in the night<br /> of things growing old.</font></font></p></blockquote> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in" class="western"> </div><!-- END POST-ENTRY --> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/2008/03/09/celebrating-womens-day-with-my-family-of-feminists/" dc:identifier="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/2008/03/09/celebrating-womens-day-with-my-family-of-feminists/" dc:title="Celebrating Women’s Day with my family of feminists" trackback:ping="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/2008/03/09/celebrating-womens-day-with-my-family-of-feminists/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> <div class="post-footer"> <p>Posted by anasuya on Sunday, March 9th, 2008, at 8:58 pm, and filed under <a href="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/category/bangalorekarnataka/" title="View all posts in Bangalore/Karnataka" rel="category tag">Bangalore/Karnataka</a>, <a href="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/category/gendersexuality-and-feminism/" title="View all posts in Gender/Sexuality and Feminism" rel="category tag">Gender/Sexuality and Feminism</a>, <a href="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/category/india/" title="View all posts in India" rel="category tag">India</a>, <a href="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/category/poetrymusic/" title="View all posts in Poetry/Music" rel="category tag">Poetry/Music</a>, <a href="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/category/writing/" title="View all posts in Writing" rel="category tag">Writing</a>.</p> <p>Follow any responses to this entry with the <a href='http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/2008/03/09/celebrating-womens-day-with-my-family-of-feminists/feed/'>RSS 2.0</a> feed.</p> <p>You can <a href="#respond">post a comment</a>, or <a href="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/2008/03/09/celebrating-womens-day-with-my-family-of-feminists/trackback/" rel="trackback">trackback</a> from your site.</p> </div><!-- END POST-FOOTER --> </div><!-- END POST --> <div id="comments"> <h3 id="comment-count">{ 3 }</h3> <h4 id="comment-header">Comments</h4> <ol class="commentlist"> <li id="comment-496" class="alt"> <p class="comment-metadata"><strong><a href='http://aninditasengupta.wordpress.com' rel='external nofollow' class='url'>Anindita</a></strong> | 11-Mar-08 at 3:29 am | <a href="#comment-496" title="Permalink to this comment" rel="permalink">Permalink</a> </p> <p>Don’t really know what to say…am so, so touched. But thank you. Big hug…:)</p> </li> <li id="comment-497" class=""> <p class="comment-metadata"><strong><a href='http://thinkndmuse.blogspot.com' rel='external nofollow' class='url'>Jay</a></strong> | 23-Mar-08 at 4:48 pm | <a href="#comment-497" title="Permalink to this comment" rel="permalink">Permalink</a> </p> <p>Great blog… esp thanks for that post on Baba Amte.<br /> Rock on.</p> </li> <li id="comment-498" class="alt"> <p class="comment-metadata"><strong><a href='http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya' rel='external nofollow' class='url'>anasuya</a></strong> | 23-Mar-08 at 5:05 pm | <a href="#comment-498" title="Permalink to this comment" rel="permalink">Permalink</a> </p> <p>Thanks, Jay! Always welcome back… :-)</p> </li> </ol> <h4 id="respond">Post a Comment</h4> <div class="formcontainer"> <form id="commentform" action="http://blogs.sanmathi.org/anasuya/wp-comments-post.php" method="post"> <p>Your email is <em>never</em> published nor shared. 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